Technically, it's only one person who's being difficult. This is an extremely mild situation, because this person isn't really in my life. She just appears out of nowhere at times when you're trying to get your act together to try and degrade you. She only appears in critical times when I honestly need to focus, to do the most damage she can do. Even as my skin is thickening and I'm not affected, I still can't afford (Unfavorable adjective) s in my life at the moment. I have a career to get on with, family stuff, so on so forth, there's no room for drama queens.
Whenever this person decides to come in my life, she does nothing but degrade me. She keeps finding faults, accuse me of being jealous of her to justify her bad treatment, and even abuse me in the name of the Holy Spirit. No seriously she comes like: "God told me you have a pride issue". It's shameful and cowardly to use God's word as shield to degrade and abuse people. If anyone does this to you, whether you're Christian or not, you have my permission to break their legs. Other injuries are completely up to you.
You probably saw this coming, perhaps it's even a cliché, but when you try to confront her with how damaging her behavior is she completely denies it. Then goes and blames me for her behavior. Maybe the best thing about her is that she keeps giving me the silent treatment. Because it gives me a break from dealing with her, so I don't need to listen to her bullshit and refusal to acknowledge anything as her fault.
A couple of hours ago, she sent me what will be the last voice note of accusation that I'm ever going to take from this person. I didn't respond, and I won't. Then I spontaneously sang my own version of Let it Go. It's not on YouTube, and it doesn't need to be. Now I'm wondering: have you ever had to deal with people like these? How did you respond?